I like to try and live my life so that I am happy as often as I can be. I want to be so happy that I make other people happy just by being around me. It's just good business! I've found the only way to accomplish this is to focus on the tiny things that are wonderful; make them so important, let it fill up your day. Then the terrible stuff (its always going to be there, no matter what) will be overshadowed by the lovely things.
Another key is surrounding yourself with amazing people. Fortunately for me, that is no problem. I have a truly incredible family, and friends whom I love dearly. For the most part I think they share my outlook on life. We depend on each other, and help one another grow.
Recently, one of my closest buds showed me a quote by Vonnegut. It really just encapsulates what I want to say:
"I urge you, please notice when you are happy and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, 'if this isn't nice, I don't know what is'"
What an awesome sentiment. During busy, crazy, hellish days it can be hard to find something worth exclaiming over. But when you find it, the small teeny thing that makes you smile, let the world know. Put a smile on your face and wear your happiness for everyone to see.
Today, I am happy for the loving support of my family and friends. Also, BBQ.
Hugs and love,
Alexandra
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